A few years ago, a client of mine wanted to write a self-help book. Initially, we focused on creating a Table of Contents as part of a book proposal to pitch to agents and publishers. Her initial content was promising and I knew that it would work well to introduce her, the problem and how she could help solve it. Next, I suggested that we needed to create a plan that readers could follow. Not only does this help structure a book, it ensures that readers can take a step by step approach to getting results.
The Small Problem:
1. She didn’t have a plan. This was okay since a method or plan can be developed based on work with clients or patients and what works most effectively for a certain problem.
The Bigger Problem:
2. She didn’t think she needed one.
In prescriptive non-fiction books there is usually a method or plan for readers to follow. When they do, they are hopefully transformed in some way. But my recalcitrant client was unable to see the importance of this. This is like stating 2 + 2 = ? with no solution for the reader.
However, she could not see that this was a problem. Which was in itself, a problem. Readers could identify what was wrong but had no DIY strategies to feel better. After writing 12 fiction and non-fiction books and editing many others, I knew that what I had suggested made sense for the book and the market. But she was unwilling to be open to new information.
Be Willing to Be Willing
Willing to be Willing is a common saying in the 12 Step world. It means being open, being willing to be led, and taught by someone who has more recovery than you do. Zen Buddhism advocates something called Beginners Mind. This means being open, eager and able to suspend what you think you know to gain more knowledge or understanding, and to change and grow. These states of mind are necessary if you’re in recovery meetings, starting to meditate or learning how to write a book with a book coach.
If you’re unwilling to put aside what you think you know, to learn what you need to know, chances are that you won’t benefit from book coaching. Odds are you also won’t finish your book – stats show only about 3 percent of people do - or it won’t be the best it can be.
It takes humility, openness and courage to be led. But if you choose the right book coach as your guide, editorial expert, cheerleader and support, your vulnerability can be an asset and your prize, the best book you’re capable of writing.
Until next time!
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